We have spent the week before Christmas traveling all over the state of Iowa to see our friends and loved ones.
We woke Monday, December 20 to have our family Christmas before we set out on the road. Cade was so excited to open gifts and has been so patient waiting a few weeks with packages under the tree. Joel did not really know what the purpose of the wrapping paper was and that there was actually something inside the paper that he would enjoy. And usually Joel only got one rip before his older brother ripped open his gift. Cade got KidKonnects, MyBot Lego set, a dump truck, a few new books including Green Eggs and Ham, and Mickey Mouse character "action figures". Joel received a new pull toy that lights up and talks about shapes, colors, and numbers, a big Thomas engine and a soft Harold the Helicopter, a Trucks board book, and Mickey Mouse character "action figures". We also gave the boys Percy and Toby for their wooden Thomas railway set. I am proud to say that I bought all of the boys' toys a garage sales or at a consignment shop, which allows us to shower the boys with more surprises than one or two toys at full price.



Our first destination was to Ames, IA to spend time with my parents. Cade LOVES my parents and spending time in their home. Joel says "MamMa, MamMa" and reaches for her to hold him whenever he can. My Mom had to be with my Grandma in Des Moines at a few doctors appointments so we did not get to see her on Monday. Cade looked at her picture that was on the counter in the bathroom mid-day Monday and said, "I miss Grandma Glenna." It was so cute and precious. Oh how he loves his Grandma Glenna. The boys had lots of playtime Monday, and when daylight came on Tuesday morning they both played in Grandma and Grandpa's bed while Mommy and Daddy got a few minutes to sleep in. (PS - My Dad's meal on Monday night was fantastic. I think Curtis could have ate the entire 3-4# roast himself. It was so delicious!)
We hit the road and headed to our wonderful friends home, Joel and Emily Penner, in Orange City, IA. The trip to their home from my parents was about 3 and 1/2 hours. Though we don't get to see each other often we have a wonderful history of friendship and when we get back together we have great unity and joy. Joel had big plans for our families to go sledding on Tuesday afternoon. I was thinking a nice little hill for our little children, but instead Joel decided on a steep Iowa "mountain". Our fearless Cade was the only child that enjoyed the adventure. He went up and down the hill 10+ times all by himself. Ella (age 3) went down a couple times with Joel and cried each time. Little Jake (13 months) starting crying immediately after getting out of the car. After I crashed with Joel one time I decided it would be best to stand at the bottom of the hill and enjoy Cade's fun! Big Joel . . . . one day, one day your children will LOVE the Iowa mountains! Our 24 hour visit was just perfect! Thank you Penner's for having us in your home. We really really really are Fonda you!




Back on the road we went towards Hampton, Iowa to celebrate Christmas with my Dad's side of the family. My parents blessed us with a hotel room for Wednesday night so we didn't have to have a late night traveling back to Ames after the family party. We arrived at the hotel around 3pm, which gave us plenty of swimming time before the 5:30pm party. Cade was so so so so so so excited. In 2009, we were at the same hotel for Thanksgiving and he couldn't wait to go back! My brother's family arrived shortly after we got into the pool which made Cade's hotel experience just perfect! He loves his cousins and enjoys spending time with them. He did so well in the pool, putting his face in the water and even getting in a few doggy paddle strokes. He was able to touch the bottom of the pool in the shallow end, which really helped him this year. My brother's family also treated our boys to the Veggie Tales movie, The Pirates Who Don't Do Anything. Cade is thrilled . . . he has been asking for this movie for at least half a year!
We had a nice time at my Aunt and Uncle's for dinner. My Grandma Bents blessed the boys with some of her favorite stuffed animals this year. Cade received a dog which he named Sir Bernard, after a story CD he loves to listen to. Sir Bernard has been sleeping with him every night since we have been home! My Mom and Dad have been working on a quilt project for my Grandma. They have taken quilts that my Grandma made 60 years ago, but never got completed, and have worked on finishing them. The three quilts have been quilted, but now my Mom is going to attempt binding them. My Mom brought the quilts to show Grandma and the rest of the family. My Grandma (age 97) is losing her eye sight so she had to get very close to the quilts to see the stiching designs. What a wonderful gift my parents have given her by completing the dreams she had so many years ago.




The boys were really tired, so we headed back to the hotel about 8pm. Everyone went to sleep well, but at 1:45am Joel woke up and did not want to go back to sleep. Hotel rooms are always challenges, but at 2:15am the challenge got even greater when Joel threw-up on me. I got him in the bathtub for a bath and to try to calm him. Nothing seemed to help him and he continued to throw-up throughout the night. Around 3:15am, Curtis and I took Joel on a drive to try to get him to sleep, but that did not work either. I sat in the lobby with him until 5:30am when he finally gave up. Curtis got a bit of sleep but at 6:30am both boys were up and ready for the day. Joel was sick sick sick, and Cade was ready to see his cousins and go to the pool. Curtis and Cade spent a good 2 hours in the pool. They had such a wonderful time. Probably the biggest highlight for Curtis on our trip. He had great joy as the two of them shared playing games in the pool. Joel's sickness subsided and he spent most of the rest of the day sleeping on and off.
On Thursday afternoon when we were back in Ames I got to spend most of the late afternoon with my good friend Megan. We don't get to see each other except for maybe a couple times a year. We have know each other since grade school and she has been so so so faithful to me as a friend. I appreciate her genuine spirit, her heart for the Lord, and her heart to serve others. It was so good chatting while running errands. She is wonderful to me.
On Friday morning we awoke to a large snowstorm. It wasn't a blizzard, but there were a good 4+ inches on the ground. Our plan was to head down to my Grandma Sparks' early enough in the day so that Curtis could get a bit of ice fishing in. Unfortunately we did not accomplish this task and he was rather disappointed. I gave him hope that Christmas morning he could go out before all of the family arrived at 1pm for our Christmas celebration. After a nice evening with my Grandma, we got the boys ready for bed. Cade unfornuately could not fall asleep and at about 10pm lost his whole dinner on Grandma's upstairs carpet . . . yes, he threw-up, as well. Curtis and Grandma got the nasty mess all cleaned up . . . what wonderful servants, while I tended to Cade in the bathroom and got him a bath. We settled him into bed, but throughout the night he woke every two hours crying for me and taking a trip to the bathroom to vomit again and again. Curtis started to feel sick at 2:30am, but did not loose his dinner until 8:30am. Well, Merry Christmas!!! We did have a little Christmas opening with Grandma before we decided it was time to get on the road. So sorry Sparks family, but we didn't want everyone to be sick. We love you all. We made it home with just one potty stop, and without any vomit in the van or diaherra in our seats. Joel did throw up one more time on Christmas night. The poor baby.



It is now Monday morning, and everyone is well except Joel. He has a awful diaherra. He will barely eat any food and is staying alive off of my breast milk. Our next adventure will start today as the Lambert family arrives in just a few hours. Christmas . . . . the MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF YEAR!!