
I am making my best efforts at teaching Cade a bit of responsibility. Our newest job - making our beds. We work on pulling up the covers so that the sheets are covered up. His bed is very hard to make because it has walls on 3 or its 4 sides, so it is quite a task to accomplish on his own. He has done it on his own a few times, but usually Momma helps him pull the blankets on. And Mommy has learned to accept "good enough."
We also require Cade to take his dishes to the counter after each meal, as well as put his drink away in the refrigerator. We have also started to ask him to put away items in the refrigerator, like yogurt, applesauce, hot pad trivets, or other smaller containers. He usually drags his feet on our request, but we still are trying to make him help out.
Last week I had him get the swiffer broom out to sweep his crumbs . He accomplished making a pile, but Joel quickly got to the pile and started to eat some of the food out of it and spread it with his hands all over the floor. Mommy came to the rescue and finally got it in a dust pan. Hopefully the sweeping responsibility will be able to come a normalacy, or maybe the crumbs on the floor will become less and less!
One procedure that Cade is mastering is taking his shoes and coat to the front door when he comes inside the back door. It is cool to see him do what I have asked without having to ask him!
Cade is also good a cleaning up toys, though it is not his favorite task. I often pick up whenever I walk from one room to the next because if I don't I will trip over the toys, but somedays I choose to pick up nothing and then have Cade work on cleaning up the toys. He doesn't understand that when you take one toy to the other room it has to be taken back to the other room. It will not miraciously appear where it goes. This will definately take awhile to master, but if he starts learning his mommy's motto - Everything has a Place - it will hopefully be in place by the time he is married (I can hope!)
My next goal is to have Joel start cleaning up the many toys he pours out on the floor. Time for the "clean up" song!