Thursday, August 25, 2011

Iowa State Fair 2011

I couldn't miss my 29th year of the Iowa State Fair even though Curtis and I just got home from Uganda. The boys were staying with my parents the second half of our trip, so the day after we got home from Uganda, Curtis and I headed out to Iowa to pick up the boys. It was nice to have a night of sleep in our own bed and hard to get up the morning after returning, but we were so excited to be with our boys as a family again!

Our first night we spent at my parents home in Ames, and then we ventured down to Des Moines for the Fair. Cade had so much to show us (it was if we had never been to the ISF in his eyes). He loved the fair and enjoyed all of the adventures he had with his grandma (even when he got lost). I am hoping in the next few years we can get some sort of camper to enjoy camping at the fair because camping was my favorite part of our yearly ISF adventures as a child. I can see the excitement Cade has for the fair is how I viewed it as a child too.

Cade had been waiting a full year to buy a cowboy shotgun at one of the toy stands at the Fair. All his pennies went into his piggy for this BIG occassion. Though these toys are not of the best quality, Grandma Glenna graciously bought a nice cheap cowboy set, including plastic spurs, holster, pistol, and shotgun. I think Cade probably slept with all of the accesories since the first day of the fair. He has been Mr. Cowboy for a least 3 weeks now. We do have one minor problem in the "outfit" though, the boots. He has outgrown his size 1 cowboy boots, so I am hoping to run into some at a garage sale but I am doubting we will find something his size now (he is so so so big). Last Sunday he settled for his rain boots to complete his Mr. Cowboy look.

We accomplished a few events at the Fair to fulfill Cade's tour for us: the Shinagins Wild West Show, Snakes Live, the Butterfly House, a round trip on the sky glider, and a trip down the big slide! Curtis and I were walking zombies at the fair and ready to go home at any moment. I was bummed that I just couldn't get into it, but my body and mind were desiring a bed.

We packed up the next morning and headed out to Princeton from Ames. We had to make a few stops along the way - Target, Kohls, Bass Pro, ISF (to get Curtis' computer that Jeremy fixed). Thankfully the boys fell asleep in the van and the ride home was not too stressful.






Uganda Travel -- August 8 - 12

On Monday our team split up again into two groups. The women went to the head office and participated in a Dorcas ministry meeting, and the men went to lead a pastor's conference. One of the hardest parts of our trip was the lack of communication of what we were expected to share or lead at events we went to. We never knew the situation we would be in. This was a big challenge for me because I am such a planned out person. I always want to share, but I always want to be prepared too. I finally realized by the end of our trip that it truly did not matter what I shared, but it was God's Words from His book that would make a difference. Scripture has the POWER to help the helpless.

AMG's Dorcas Ministry started about three years ago when the organization started recognizing that young girls were dropping out of school once they had reached puberty. The girls were not educated about their body's changes, and many felt like they were dying and would stay at their home. AMG also recognized that girls were not being encouraged or being taught how to be women of the Lord because so many live without a Bible-believing parent, or a parent at all. The Dorcas ministry now provides monthly supplies for the girls, and also focuses on growing and teaching girls as they reach maturity. There are many different ways the AMG Dorcas ministry supports the Ugandan women, so we only saw a glimpse of the ministry through the meeting we were a part of on Monday.

We were asked to run the meeting on Monday, which is a bit difficult, since we hardly knew anything about Dorcas (other than it was a women's ministry). The women at the meeting were the national AMG workers from the six child development centers, as well as a few upper secondary and university aged girls. A few of the women in our group who had been in Uganda before shared a basic format of the meeting, so that helped us get going on our plan. Each girl in our group either shared how they came to know Christ as her Savior or shared why a verse was significant in their life. This not only was a blessing to the Ugandan women, but it helped to bring our American group closer together. Just a week before these moments we were complete strangers. We were then thrown into a foreign country to serve as a team for the Lord. Our group dynamics were not bad, but we still barely knew each other. Also in the meeting, one of the Ugandan women shared from the book of Esther. Her name was Pauline, and she had been an AMG sponsored child for 10 years. She is now in University, and probably still being sponsored. She was fantastic, and a definite piece of fruit of God' work in the AMG ministry. She had great points and great wisdom about staying pure and following after God. It was an encouragment to me that these girls were being taught, and then could teach others what following after the Lord Jesus Christ looks like. We were able to bless the girls at the end of the meeting with some of the purse/bags my mom had sent with us to Uganda. Way to go Mom, you brought smiles to their faces and hearts!!

Curtis and the guys went to Vincent's (AMG national worker who at times acted as our host) home church, where there were a group of Ugandan pastors and their wives there to learn. Curtis and the men prepared a to team teach a sermon, trying to teach these men how to correctly divide the Word of God. The "prosperity gospel" is very prominent in Uganda due to the lack of pastoral training and proper Biblical training. Many pastors are self-taught, so they do not know if they are correctly dividing the Word of Truth. The prosperity gospel basically teaches that if you give your money, you will become rich and can not be harmed. Ugandans are poor, so this idea appeals to them; but, this is just a ploy and a lie that is more harmful than helpful. At the end of the meeting on Monday, the men asked the pastor's to write down questions they could address the next day. So on Monday night, the guys worked late into the night on answers to these questions. On Tuesday they were able to lead a discussion with these men and wives again. This opportunity was Curtis' favorite part of the trip. He loves seeing and hearing God's Word correctly taught!

While the men were back at The Living Word church on Tuesday, the girls went with Patricia and Jennifer (national AMG workers at Masaja) on home visits. Patricia did a very good job of what was expected of us during a home visit, which made us feel more confident as we went out and about. She asked one person to share a verse of encouragement with words of our own to love the family we were visiting. At times she may have to interrupt for us. The parental figure and AMG child would share with us as well during these visits about how thankful they were for AMG and their sponsor. At the end of our visit, another person in our group would pray for the family and then give the family food as we left. These home visits were sad because these family's have so little, including very little food. But these AMG families have hope because they have a child who is being given a future, and more importantly the truth and love of Jesus Christ is being taught and hopefully accepted by these families. No matter how much money we have in the world, if we do not have Christ, all of our hearts look like these Ugandan homes - dirt floors, no furniture, and no nourishment. Christ is our hope, and though we didn't always have the right words to share with these family's in such desperate situations, we had the Truth of Him to give.

We were suppose to go to the school after our home visits and pastor's conference on Tuesday, but after our long lunch we missed the children. AMG has an office at this school, and the children had prepared a program for us to go to. We had NO CLUE that this was going on. There was a BIG communication error and the head master of the school was VERY mad at us. Dean and Karen Houser worked that day and the next day to get our reputation reinstated with the head master and on Friday morning part of our group was able to go and see the presentation the kids had for us. There was a lot of dancing and singing.

I did not go to the school on Friday morning, but went with about 5 of our girls to Nomagoga to do some home visits for the Dorcas ministry. Therefore we specifically went to homes with single mothers or grandmothers. In the area we were at, there was a lot of food opportunities, so I was pleasantly surprised when we went to these homes and saw many fruit trees and a few of the families even had animals. Three of the homes we went to were run by grandmothers. These women were so precious and so gracious to us. We walked away from one of the homes with a number of avocados that the grandmother gave us. We were there to bless them and they were giving to us.

At one of the homes, there were four AMG sponsored children. Usually only one child is sponsored in a family, but this family was different. It was so neat to see how impacted this family was because 4 of the children were given an education and the knowledge of Christ. I was able to give a pair of the shoes I brought to Maria, the youngest girl in the family. Cade had decided before I left that he wanted to pick out shoes for children in Uganda. I was surprised how expensive shoes were at Wal-Mart, so though Cade picked out some nice fancy tennis shoes and street shoes we had to put those back and pick up a Keds type shoe. I have only bought brand new shoes for my boys 4 times combined, so I was amazed at the price of new shoes. Maria was so excited as I put these shoes on her feet. She gleamed and gleamed with joy and excitement!

At another home, the AMG national workers shared the Gospel with a grandmother and her 6 grandchildren. The family spoke very little English, so we did not always understand what was being said, but they did interpret here and there for us. One of the grandchildren had a baby just a week prior to our visit, so before we left I got to hold a little little baby. I had the opportunity to pray for the family when we left, and because of the lack of English I prayed that the girl would remain safe during labor not realizing she had already had the baby (but I had not seen or heard him). I felt a bit embarassed, but God knew what my heart was in it all. I enjoyed the many home visits because the people were so grateful and proud to have us visiting.

On Wednesday we went to the Bukoto Child Development Center to a teen convention. A number of teens from the four different Kampala centers were brought to Bukoto for the day to learn about finding their purpose in life, as well as boy/girl relationships. We had no idea what we were stepping into on this day. Again, we each had prepared a word of encouragement (1 minute sharing of a verse) and Curtis had prepared a 5 minute talk about purpose, but we thought we would be leading a game time and interacting with the students more. The morning time was filled with worship music and a guest speaker, then we did a few games before lunch time, and then the afternoon hours were filled with a question and answer time about dating and relationships. Uganda is one of the African nations who has done a very good job in educating their people about HIV/AIDS. But many teenagers still get brought into prostitution to supply money for their families, therefore the young kids need to be educated on these topics still (just like all teens across the world do). To be honest the seminar talks were very boring, but it was interesting to hear how they are educating these AMG children to have a Biblical perspective on life.

The main highlight at Butkoto was meeting our sponsored child, Akech Vicky. She is 13 years old and we have been sponsoring her for two years. We have never written to Vicky, but she has written to us at 3-4 times a year. We knew some information about her but not what daily life was like for her. She was not at the Bukoto when we arrived, but she was at school. She is in Secondary 2, which would be like 8th grade in America. She goes to a boarding school, so she does not stay at home until school breaks. They basically go to school year around with four week breaks here and there. When she does return home, she lives with her aunt as well as her 3 brothers (P2, P4, P6 I believe). Her mother works in a factory far away and her father either died when she was young or he left. She was so so so shy when we meant her. We spent about 20 minutes with her sharing pictures of our family and sharing with her the gifts we brought. Her first question when she saw the boys was, "Why didn't they come?" She really wanted to meet them. It was precious. At the end of the day Vicky gave us the necklace she was wearing. It was a very Catholic looking picture of Jesus. She wanted us to give it to our boys. We both knew that it was a special gift she wore around her neck from one of her friends, but we didn't want to reject her generosity. God blessed us with this opportunitiy, to truly see how the money we have give (which is God's money) has been used to further His Kingdom. We may never see Vicky again, but we pray that she grows to be a woman who seeks after Jesus Christ with all her heart.

By this time in our trip I was definately getting sick of the Ugandan food, even the food at our hotel. I even started to forgo the pineapple in the mornings at breakfast (and I love fruit!!) because I was just having it so much. I never felt like I could trust anything we were eating. I was struggling eating, but I wasn't suffering and my appetite was actually down. God was helping me, but oh how I wanted to just eat and enjoy it.

Every night of our trip we met as a group in a little commons area at our hotel to review our day and talk about the next day (at least try to formulate the next day if at all possible). These times were good, but were also awkward because most people didn't like to say things in these formula meetings. We would share what we enjoyed about the day, what we struggled with, and gave advice about how to handle cultural or spiritual situations that we may have not understood. Though these times seemed forced, I was really glad that we had these nightly meetings because it helped to bring unity to our group.



Our team of girls helping hold Dorcas Ministry flyers at the home office.


The men at the Pastor's Conference at The Living Word Church in Kampala.


My first home visit. This young girl (age 13) lives in a home with her mother and 4 other siblings. The father left the family years ago and has not been heard from. The home was spacious and had a nice roof (very different than the other home visits we made). The front yard is filled with sweet potatoes. The picture below is the outside of the home.



The children at KCC school in the courtyward of the school.


Curtis sharing with the AMG teens at the Bukoto Child Development Center.


We met our sponsored child, Akech Vicky, at the Bukoto Child Development Center.


Group photo at Bukoto. We brought extra trip shirts, so we shared them with the AMG national workers and university students we got to know.


Princeton Bible Church Uganda Team!!

Uganda Travel -- August 2 - August 7

I did a bit of journaling in Africa, but I didn't get it done everyday. It is overwhelming each day to journal all that we did and my impressions of it all. I learned that writing got me no where, but I needed to type in order to get my thoughts completely out. I hope that the memories I did type are great ones. Here are our first few days - Tuesday, August 2 to Sunday, August 7.

Our plane ride was SO long. . . . SO long!! We had three different flights, 2 hours, 13 hours, 2 hours! The travel went well, but I realized that this wasn’t just a joy ride as I watched the time tick down on our 13 hours flight. We are a LONG way from home. This fact alone has helped me to understand the Ugandan culture more and more. They are a long way from America, and therefore the American influence is very little here because we are so far away. Yes, we have seen Americanized buildings, logos, clothing styles, etc. but for the most part it is the Ugandan way here.

The first thing we realized when we got on the bus to head from the airport to the AMG home office – Uganda, was the traffic. CHAOS!! PURE CHAOS!! There are no stop signs, stop lights, street signs, speed limit signs. There are round-a-bouts everywhere, which keeps the traffic moving in its chaotic. They drive on the opposite side of the street and their steering wheels are on the opposite side, as well. Not only are there cars on the road, but these taxi-like vans and many many many motorcycles! These motorcycles are taxis called boda bodas. These boda bodas are the fast taxis because they weave in and out of the cars and vans to get their passengers to their destination. Not only do the motorcycles carry people, but also goods. I have pictures of motorcyclists and bicyclists carrying chair frames, 50+ pineapples, long boards for building with, a huge bag of charcoal, jugs of water, bed mattresses, and more on their small vehicles! Not many people in Uganda own a car, therefore in order to get goods they must use what they have to get goods to their homes or to sell the goods they have. I don’t want to forget the people that simply are walking everywhere because there are MANY of those people too, carry water jugs, bags, and children. Some of the loads are being balanced on their heads and others hold them in their hands. It is amazing, and it is simply life in Uganda. It is absolutely amazing to see how a society that has hardly anything still has a people who want to make it and live. I know that when I feel like I have nothing I just want to give up.

All along the sides of the road are merchants of any kind, from people selling shoes laid out on a sheet on the ground, to hair and nail salons, to mechanics, to iron works. These merchants are not in nice buildings with glass doors and windows, rather they have a little shop that might be a tin shack with enough room to walk in and turn and walk out. They work with what they have and try to make it. They want to keep their area looking nice, so they will sweep the dirt that is outside of their small business shack. They are trying to have pride in what they do and find worth in this poor poor place. Watching out the window of the bus was one of my FAVORITE parts of the trip. We spent many hours on the bus and I enjoyed watching God's work in Uganda - the people, the vegetation, the culture.

We are staying at a very nice, clean, and safe hotel. Outside of the gate of our hotel is another story as you have already read. I do feel like I am locked up because we are not given the freedom to just go walking on the streets of Kampala. I understand that it is not safe and do not want to even have the possibility of being hurt or even kidnapped, but I miss the exercise and freedom of America.

Our first two days we spent time on the AMG property named, Upendo. At Upendo AMG has a primary school, grades 1-7, as well as an orphanage that houses both girls and boys. These property is owned by AMG and the buildings here were just recently built and are still being finished. Children in the AMG program come to school at Upendo, but do not always stay at Upendo. It was a bit confusing when we first got there and tried to wrap our hands around how things operate. Many of the children that stay at Upendo have home lives that are unbareable. These children may be too sickly to be at home because their family will not care for them or they do not have anyone to care for them. The children that come to the school that are AMG children will often walk from far distances to go to the school – 60+ minutes is not uncommon. School is not a given in Uganda, it is an opportunity, therefore if a child’s family can pay to go to school, they go because they can have a future.

While at Upendo we did a bit of painting, and when I say a bit, I mean maybe 20-30 minutes, which seemed like NOTHING. The children just follow us and want to know who we are. So we started out with just our team painting and it ended up that many of the children were painting at the end with us. The first thing we always ask the children is their name. The children answer quietly and will often times give us their Lugandan name, which we have no clue how to pronounce. Then they give us their Christian name, or more American name, which is what we call them. Some of the names I remember: Timothy, Denis, Brian, Eva, Gloria, Caroline, Justine, Rachel . . . . and the list goes on. There are children EVERYWHERE in Uganda. We spent time throwing the football with the children, teaching them the hokey pokey and head, shoulders, knees and toes, bouncing tennis balls, playing Connect 4, attempting a game of baseball, but spent most of our time just talking. I merged toward the older children because I could understand them better.
I talked with Simon, a student in secondary school, who shared with me information about students at Upendo and a bit of his story. His passion is for the younger children to feel safe and loved and to know Christ. He said that 12 students from Upendo walk to his secondary school about 30-40 minutes away. He shared with me his desire to pray every day during his lunch hour. He also shared with me that he has had many muslim friends convert to Christianity. He recognized that he cannot separate himself from muslims, but must be a part of their lives to win them to Christ. This story inspired me to stand strong for the Lord and keep fighting the fight against Islam. Simon has been trained in the way of the Lord because someone chose to pay $28 a month for his school fees.

Our group split on Saturday to visit two different AMG child development centers in the Kampala area. Everyone from our Princeton group went to the Namagoga Child Development Center. While traveling to Namagoga it was raining; this made the roads very muddy and slowed up our travel. The rain also caused problems in the arena of parking our bus, therefore our bus driver drove around for about 1 hour before the road was hard enough to park on.

When we first arrived at the center, Christopher, the center director, showed us his office and welcomed us. I was very surprised at the appearance of the center. I thought that the center would be a good sized building where the children could gather. Rather, this “center” was just 3 rented rooms in an apartment building. These rooms were not decent sized rooms, but were very small (maybe 10x10). Christopher shared with us AMG recently purchased land across the road where they will be building a Namagoga center when the funds are available. Therefore, they will no longer have to rent. AMG has a GREAT vision for the future, just as I visualized at Upendo the week before. They want to support more children, and make leaders for the next generation of Ugandans who know the Lord and the purpose of His Word.

We were late in our arrival to the Namagoga center, so we missed the Bible teaching and discussion groups. Christopher brought the children into the small field, where we were able to introduce ourselves and answer a few questions the children had about America. There were at least 120 children at the center, and most of them were in primary school (ages 6-12 or so). This question and answer time was the first opportunity our group members had to talk and share a word of encouragement. I enjoyed watching my two high school girls (Nicole and Kenzey) step up and be bold as they spoke. Though they did not say a lot, they still spoke!! There was not great communication between the AMG national workers and us about what they wanted us to share or when. They would often times ask us to give a word of encouragement or testimony. Whenever we think of a testimony, we think of the time when we accepted Christ as our Savior, but what the Ugandans meant was they wanted us to testify to what God was doing in our lives at the moment. For example, we could say that we praised God for the safe travel He gave us to Uganda. It was that simple and that easy. The Ugandan Christians were so very very thankful for all that the Lord had done for them, and praised Him for every single need meant. Though I feel grateful, I do not outwardly express my thankfulness to God everyday like they do in the Ugandan culture.

During the game time at Namogaga our group split into different activities – futbol (soccer for the boys), netball (for the girls), singing and group games, and more! Our group did a great joy of jumping right in getting to know the kids! Kenzey and I played netball for at least one hour. We thought that we were going to be playing soccer with the girls, but instead we learned that the girls do not play soccer in Uganda, but they play netball. Kenz and I jumped right in and started to play even though we did not understand the rules. We quickly picked up on the game and it was very comparable to keep away. We played for close to one hour, which was a long time to be running around. We both really enjoyed our time, especially the opportunity to get some exercise!! In this field, where we were playing netball, Curtis was also leading a soccer game with the boys. The boys did not wear shoes as they played. Curtis organized a little tournament so that all of the boys could play.

We also played some group games with the kids like Duck, Duck, Goose and Red Rover. The children taught us some of their Ugandan group games. We had a lot of fun trying to figure out what the games meant and what the children were saying as they sang and ran or danced. One of my favorites was one about a police chase. The child ran around the outside of the circle and then was let into the circle to do a dance and get away from the police. It was one of the only games they sang in English. The others were usually in their native languages. We also taught the children Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes, as well as the Hokey Pokey! We tried to have the children sing these songs in their native language, but the rhyming did not work as well. These were great times of interacdtion with the children, and allowed us to see their personalities and part of their culture. They loved playing with us.

Cade wanted to buy jump ropes for the children, so I took two of the jump ropes on this Saturday. Many of the girls knew jump roping rhymes, and they were so good at sharing the rope time with others.

We visited a very American-like church on Sunday, Agape Baptist Church in Kampala. I was able to worship because I knew the songs and was able to understand the speakers. It has hit me that the God that I pray to in America is the same God that these Ugandans pray to here in Africa. He is the God in Africa and in America. He is God and He is KING no matter where on this Earth I am.

We ate at a very nice restaurant on Sunday after church. It was the first nice restaurant we ate at since our arrival in Uganda. I felt very strange sitting at a golf course eating American-type food and just the day before we saw children without shoes on their feet, eating their only meal of the day. What I realized as the days went on was that in order for our team to stay healthy (at least somewhat) by eating, we needed to go to these restaurants with more American-type food. The food at our restaurant wasn't bad, but is just got old because we had it everyday. The Ugandans cooked with a lot of grease, which I noticed made a difference in my diet. Curtis got sick for a couple days and found himself on the toilet on many occassions those days. I had a few episodes of toilet sitting, as well. Overall, our team did very well without sickness.

After lunch on Sunday we went to the African market. This was our opportunity to get souveniors. But it wasn't as simple as picking out what you liked and then buying it. You had to barter with the shop owner. Many of the shops had the same items and their prices were usually in the same ballpark. We picked out items for the boys, as well as our parents. We got a statue of a family for our home. It was a fun experience, but so many of the items were made so cheaply I didn't want to buy too much. And we realized that bartering was a lot harder than we thought. The shop keepers didn't want to budge.



A man delivering milk on his bicycle.


A boda boda waiting for a passenger who needs a ride.


Painting the girls dorm at Upendo.


Playing with the Upendo AMG sponsored children and Upendo Christian School children.


An apartment building on our way home from Upendo.


The sponsored children of Namogoga for the Saturday program.


Jumping rope with the girls at Namogoga.


The children's lunch at Namogoga. Potatoes and Beans. They eat with their fingers only.


The boys who LOVED Curtis.